Episode Transcript
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Hello, hello, and welcome to another episode of Wealth Embodied, where we activate and inspire you and your wealth consciousness, your creative genius, and your visionary impact. I'm your host, Alara Sage. And today I want to talk about shame. And I want to bring in a story of something I just recently experienced, because I stand for self-expression.
I stand for authenticity and I absolutely, if you haven't catched on yet, stand for your erotic power, your sexual power, your aliveness, your turn on all those things.
And so I come here to share this story because these are the exact experiences that I stand for stopping.
Particularly when we speak about women to women, we all know the stories of the witch hunts and the times when women have been thrown under the bus and they've been thrown under the bus or thrown in the water and drowned or burned by other women. And our society has not been a safe place for women to love on and be loved on by other women.
And there's a lot to that. And I'm not going to go into all of that as to why and what's created that. I'm here to really talk about shame and sisterhood and the feminine power.
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One of the things I experienced a lot of when I was in high school, particularly, but it started in middle school and then it really picked up in high school was, you know, women just not liking me for my energy, for my presence. I was very quiet and shy and I didn't say much and they just did not like me. There was a lot of judgment, a lot of
projections onto me. And it created a real strong distrust between me and women to the point that I primarily hung out with men, which did not help my relationship with women.
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Through the years of my spiritual practice, I have come to heal much of what's called the sisterhood wounds, the wounds from women to women. You know, not blood sisters, just sisters in source. I now have tremendous women in my life, both as clients and as friends and as colleagues and
I only surround myself with women who can hold the frequency of love towards other women.
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And I am here to speak to the power of creating wealth through our sexual energy. I'm here to speak to a lot of things that are still deeply shamed. Power, money, sex.
It's not easy.
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And what happens often is I trigger women.
And you know, I think sometimes I'm a little naive to it because it happens and I'm like, really? I thought we were done with this. But of course we're not done with it. know, thousands of years of this kind of pain does not get healed in, you know, a decade or less.
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So I've had several times on Facebook, primarily, where I make posts that are speaking to erotic current sexual power. The other day I made a post where I was dancing in my erotic current and I've had women lash out at me. One woman was a colleague who I adore and love very much. She did not lash out at me. She was actually protective of me.
But she reached out and it caused a trigger in me and it caused a trigger in her and we worked out through it all. It was beautiful, beautiful. But the other day, a woman passively aggressively called me out to shame me in my erotic current. So this isn't about that woman. This isn't about that experience. This is about how triggering these energies are. This is about the truth.
that when we are a woman, in our power, we trigger people.
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So if you're following me and you're doing the things that I am speaking to, you most likely will trigger other women in their shame and in their pain and sometimes in their fear.
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because this energy is very.
for.
Do you need to fear it? No. Do you need to understand that it is in some context dangerous? Yes. Because guess what? All power is dangerous if misused.
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The ability to create your life is dangerous if misused.
So the woman was saying that.
what I was doing was dangerous and that I was using my sexual energy to.
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exploit others. Sexual exploitation.
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And when I first saw her post, it hurt. I had to address the energetic triggers in myself. It didn't hurt a lot because I've done a lot of this work. It was a twang. It wasn't like a full blown knock me off my butt.
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but it still did hurt and I'm responsible for that. I'm responsible for my triggers. I'm responsible for the fact that I had a wound that she could still tap.
But I want to speak to this because. Exploitation, sexual exploitation, she was saying that, you know, it's alluring and I remember the words she was using, to be quite frank.
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The interesting thing is that there's exploitation of all kinds of things. We can exploit with our words. I mean, there is exploitation everywhere in our media right now.
It's not just sexual is my point.
So when we say that we're not allowed to be in our sexual power because it's exploitation.
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That is, for one, it's an energy of shame that is deeply rooted in everything that I speak to about power, money, and sex. How much shame humanity at large holds within these, it's one frequency, but we'll say two, three different facets of the same frequency, which is fundamentally power.
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There's a lot of shame there. And basically what she was saying was equivalent to saying, you can't wear that dress because you're asking to be raped.
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And this is what has to stop.
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Yes, we have to hold responsibility in our power. And I always say, you know, Superman is, or Spider-Man is my favorite in his quote, that with great power comes great responsibility. That is absolutely true. If you are going to embody your sexual power, if you are going to yield wealth,
then you had better be ready to be responsible for yourself, your intentions and your actions. And I mean, really responsible. So how many people exploit power, exploit wealth, exploit...
places and family names and their talents. mean, exploitation is everywhere.
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It is our responsibility as individuals, no matter what we're doing. This isn't even in the context of sexual power is my point. If you never embody your sexual power, guess what? It is still your responsibility to ensure that you are working from a place of integrity. That is your responsibility.
So yes, can sexual energy be exploitation? Absolutely. Again, as can so many other things. And it is up to us in every action that we take, everything that we say, every word that is spoken to our loved ones, to our neighbors, to strangers, it is our responsibility to ensure we are of integrity. So does that mean?
that we are not allowed to embody our sexual current because of potential exploitation? F no. Does that mean that you're not allowed to embody your power because of potential exploitation? F no. Does that mean that you can't live wealthy and in overflow because of potential exploitation? No. Right? No. Affirm hard. No. It has nothing to do with that.
Right? It has everything to do with your why. So in that video that this woman is speaking to, I was very playful. There was actually, if you know me, I can get very sexually intense. And that video was nothing like that. I was actually very playful. I was laughing and I was moving my body.
My intention was to bring this beautiful creative life force energy forward for the viewers to use for their benefit.
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There was I didn't even have a CTA call to action. I didn't say, if you want more of this, call me. There was none of that. It was actually just simply a gift. That was my why. That was the energy I was in play and offer. So was there any exploitation? Not from my end. No, there was not. Because the exploitation comes through the intention.
Now, I always say we can say the words. You can say something and it could be completely politically incorrect and racist, but you literally didn't know like a child specifically. Like, let's take it to that level. Right. Like a six year old says things that are mean that you're like, whoa, what? Because they're just being authentic in their expression. There's innocence there. You can say things that you're unaware are
culturally insensitive, but are you saying them to be culturally insensitive? No, you're saying them because those are the words you have or whatever. That's what you're saying. But the why is not to be a dick. The why is not to take down other cultures. The why is conversation. But here we are in a society where we can't handle that. We don't understand frequency. We can't say, I hear your words and I feel your intention.
No, we're just I hear your words. I see what you're doing. And there's all kinds of exploitation in corporations where they're saying they're doing one thing and pharma, big drug. Let's be real. We're healing you. We're so good. We care so much about you. Right. Meanwhile, they're exploiting you. So the words are there.
the imagery, all the things they have at all facade of this is all for you when they're actual underlying why I'm not going to pretend that I know their why most likely it's about money and power because that's what fuels humanity.
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So we can look pretty, we can say all the right things and still be exploiting. We can be in our power and we can be in our truth, we can be in our authenticity and be really clear as to why we're doing the things that we're doing. And it could be perceived as exploitation. It could be perceived as manipulation. It could be perceived as whatever all the other words that go along with this thread of consciousness, right? And it will.
partially be. You will encounter that. So the question is, do you trust your intention? Do you know where you come from? Because I've had this happen three times in a very short amount of time, and it's allowing me to heal through this last little bit. And the one experience, I was told that it's very dangerous what I'm doing, which
Like I said, yeah, this energy is dangerous. I own that 100%. And that what I am doing is not in alignment with Tantra, which I do not teach Tantra. There is nothing on my website that says anything about Tantra. I have Tantra lineages, but I am not here teaching Tantra. I'm not aligned to Tantra. And I said that I'm aligned to Tantra. This comes, what I'm doing comes from the mother.
And when I ended that conversation, I was in an energy of self doubt. Oh, am I going against Tantra? Wait a second, Tantra. I don't even follow Tantra. What do I have anything to do with Tantra? Where did this come from? Why did I do what I do? Because the mother told me, okay, sink into that.
and my nervous system exploded with fear.
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fear. I mean, I was shaking and I had to scream my head off to get it out of my nervous system. And then I felt great. And then it was all done.
But I had to go back to wait, let me just pause here for a moment. Why? Why did I do what I did? Because the mother guided me to do so and it was right. It was truth. I know wisdom in my body. I know what it feels like when she speaks to me. And that is who I trust. Not external people, not guides and gurus and whatever else, not other enlightened beings that want to call me
Exploitation? No. No. No. I choose to believe in one thing and that is the wisdom of my being. And, you know, it's taken me years to get here. Years, years, years, years. If this, if what has happened in the last few months would have happened to me five years ago, I would have crumbled. Crumbled. Because I did not have the clear connection that I do now to the mother.
I would have crumbled and I would have thought I am horrible. What was I thinking? Embody my sexual power? That's disgusting. That's gross. That's shameful. I need to go cleanse myself and I need to get my shit together.
And I would have gone against myself. And I have done that so many times. I did it so much that I shut myself down because I was, I took on the shame, right? I took on that this must be shameful. They're telling me it's shameful. The Catholic church told me it's shameful. My mother told me it's shameful. It's all shameful. I should be ashamed. And I took that on and I believed it. And you know what it did? It made me really, really.
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sick physically, emotionally, mentally sick. And you know what I'm not now? I'm not sick.
I'm vibrant, I'm alive, I'm not sick.
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And you know, if what I'm saying is like your internal wisdom says she's wrong, then you trust that. Like always trust your internal wisdom. Now understand the difference between a trigger and wisdom, because they are very, very different. This very well could be triggering you. And that is not wisdom. That is conditioning and programming and wounding, right?
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But if you know something to be true for yourself and somebody else has something other, let them be them. You be you. But let go of the shame. If you want to dress how you want to dress, you dress that way. If you want to do something else, you know, if you want to buy a pretty purse because deep inside you feel like it's important to you. And yet there is a
voice in your head telling you that is materialistic and superficial and what is wrong with you. That voice is not truth because wisdom does not speak to you like that. Wisdom speaks to you in love. In love. So the voice that is pushing you down and judging you and belittling you is not your wisdom. It is not your intuition. It is not your higher self. It is not mother. It is not father.
maybe from your physical mother, your physical father, it is not the mother, the father.
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We have to recognize the shame that we have taken on, the shame about our bodies, that we have to be a certain weight. We can't have wrinkles. We can't have cellulite. The amount of shame that women have taken on, I cannot anymore. I will not stand for it. I will do everything in my power to help women heal the shame within themselves and feel utterly the opposite, to feel empowered, to feel beautiful no matter what they look like.
The wrinkles, the gray hair, the fat, the cellulite, whatever. To feel empowered if they want to buy the purse, if they want to wear the fancy clothes. To feel empowered if they want to dawn on nothing dirt clothes and go play in the garden and be dirty. To feel empowered and alive and who we are authentically in ourselves and fuck everybody else. Fuck them.
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So no sexual energy, sexual power in of itself. You know what the frequency of that energy is? It's innocence.
innocence. was this blew my mind one day when I was shown this because it's truth. My energy, my sexual power came online when I was like three years old. Was I exploiting anybody? No. That word I couldn't even talk. Maybe I was talking by three. I don't know, but you get my point. Exploitation.
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So no, in its purest frequency, it is innocence. It is purity. It is creation. Okay? Can it be used to exploit? Absolutely. Is it dangerous? Yes!
But as much as the ocean is dangerous, the sun is dangerous, climbing the mountain to get to the top is dangerous. Life is dangerous if you live it.
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But what makes it dangerous is not the energy in its purest form. The innocence, the purity, the creation is not what's dangerous. It's our shame towards it. Because then we misuse it, we misjudge it, we don't understand it. We try to hold it and simultaneously get it out of our hand like a hot potato. We simultaneously try to embody it and then push it away or
Pass it out of ourselves.
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When you really feel safe in it, it feels good. You can soften. And you can let go of all the stories that say that you need to be anything other than you are, my love, because you do not. You do not.
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So be you. Do what lights you up. Do what turns you on. Let others get triggered. Breathe through the trigger. Breathe through anything that gets triggered through you in the process. Take responsibility for your trigger and keep going because it is those of us who choose.
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embody these frequencies and show the world that we are not here to exploit. We are not here to shame others. We are not here to use this frequency to disempower. Quite the opposite. True power always empowers. True power always empowers. So if you hear another woman talking negative about another woman, you check, do I want to be with this woman anymore?
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Does it feel good having this relationship? Do I feel like I can call her out in a loving way? Because women talking bad about women and calling them out and passively aggressively. I see this in social media a lot in the spiritual community. Women calling each other out. I don't understand it. I will not partake in that. I will not.
I'm here to love other women. I'm here to celebrate them. Yeah, I'm here to show them the edge. Yeah, I'm here to hold a mirror. Yeah, I'm here to take you through the fire. It's not easy. It's not necessarily soft and tender. I'm raw and rigid sometimes. Other times I'm really sappy and emotional and loving.
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But I love you. And I love women. I'm here for them. I'm here for their authenticity. I'm here for their power. I'm here for releasing the shame that we have carried far too long.
letting our roars, letting our wildness, letting our titties hang out, whatever we want to do. And with that, I end. I love you all so very much. And I do have a summit running right now called Erotic Current. So if you haven't joined, I do invite you to join. I'll put the link below.
