#137 - The Power of Your NO

#137 - The Power of Your NO
Wealth Embodied
#137 - The Power of Your NO

Nov 19 2024 | 00:13:28

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Episode 137 November 19, 2024 00:13:28

Hosted By

Alara Sage

Show Notes

In this episode of Wealth Embodied, Alara Sage explores the profound relationship between money, desire, and personal growth.  Alara discusses the roles of the inner feminine and masculine energies in manifesting wealth and the necessity of having a strong sense of 'no' to navigate superficial wants. 

 Takeaways

  • Money is magnetized to desire, not need or want.
  • Desire is connected to our soul and transformation.
  • The inner feminine thrives in her full desire.
  • The inner masculine provides safety and protection.
  • A strong 'no' is necessary for the inner feminine to feel safe.
  • 'Maybe' indicates uncertainty and lack of clarity.

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Episode Transcript

Alara Sage (00:01.1) Hello, hello, and welcome to Wealth Embodied, where we activate and inspire you in your wealth consciousness, your creative genius, and your visionary impact. Today is a solo episode where it's just you and me, and I go into a topic. And I want to talk to you today about a conversation I had with money. This is a conversation that is, to say the least, out of the box. mean, in all honesty, everything I teach is out of the box. But this is... really out of the box. And I want you to really receive what I'm saying, not necessarily on an intellectual level, because you may or may not understand it. I want you to receive it vibrationally into your body. I want you to feel, to the best of your ability, the truth of it. So this morning, I had an intuitive hit to have a conversation with money. So I said, money, what do you want to say to me? And money said, there's a difference between need, want, and desire. And need is very much rooted in survival. Want is rooted in the ego. And desire is what is rooted in the heart. Desire is what is connected to our soul. And I've taught that before. And understanding that money is magnetized to desire. Money is magnetized to the desire of money. Now. Even saying that is so triggering for people. How dare we desire money? That's greedy. That's superficial, yada, yada, yada. But any of those perspectives are not understanding what I'm speaking here today. Wanting money is superficial. Desiring money is something completely different. So again, desiring money is a is from your soul. Now, ultimately, your soul doesn't truly desire money. Your soul desires the transformation, the journey, the process that you go through as you open to receive, open to create, open to actualize and experience higher levels of wealth. Alara Sage (02:26.04) Okay, so understanding that money is simply the target. It's something to point our awareness and our attention to. So desiring money is far from superficial. It is you pointing yourself at a target desiring the journey along the way, the transformation to that goal. Let's take this a little bit deeper. In the energy of desire, what happens is first and foremost, true desires come from our heart, they are connected to our soul. And when we connect to those desires, what happens is our womb or hara for men activates. Okay, that is the energetic vessel through which energy is actualized. Just like if you think of the physical womb, even though we're truly talking more about the energetic, but the physical womb brings ethereal energy into physical human form, makes a baby. correct? That is what the womb Hara does. It takes ethereal energy, spirit source energy and creates it into physical form in all forms, not just babies. So when we are open into our desires in the heart, we activate that womb and the womb Hara triggers into longing yearning and longing yearning is a magnetic energy. Okay. Now the inner feminine that we all have, we all have our inner feminine. She ultimately wants to be in her full desire and that is where she is highly magnetic and that is where money comes to her most easily is when she is in her magnetism. When she is lit in her desire, which is very sensual and very sexual, sexual energy. It doesn't mean the act of sex, doesn't have anything to do with the act of sex. means energetically, sexually alive, energetically, sexually lit. Okay. So when she's in her full desire, money comes in. But where she doesn't allow herself to be in her full desire is when she doesn't feel safe. And the safety comes from the inner masculine. He is the protector. Alara Sage (04:51.318) And the safety comes from his no. The masculine holds the power of the no. And when he says no to opportunities, to options, to choices, to things going on in your life, he is protecting the inner feminine. He is protecting her. So when he is very powerful in his know, when he is certain of his know, then the feminine inner feminine feels safe to be fully lit in her desire. And that's a very magnetic space and she's protected because of the masculine know. So thinking how to utilize this information first and foremost is about contemplating your relationship to your own inner masculine. your relationship to masculine energy in your life that will first and foremost come up as your father, any brothers, any strong male presence in your life, and then ultimately your relationship to God. Okay, God as the father, because there's also the mother that I talk about a lot as well. Contemplating your relationship there will help you see anywhere where there has been manipulation, coercion, greed. Alara Sage (06:24.792) codependency, unhealthy attachment. And not to go into that very deeply, because that's a whole, honestly, a whole talk in and of itself. But understanding that we need to see these relationship patterns, right? The relationship patterns that we've had with our own inner masculine and the relationship patterns we've had with all masculine energy. Like I said, father, brothers, men in our life, God, the father. So we can heal these fundamental relationship patterns, release this unhealthy attachment, and then we can be in healthy attachment, right? And really allow the masculine to say and step into his power, his divine masculine power. So contemplating first and foremost your relationship, as I mentioned, to all the masculine energies, and second, your no. And this can show up a lot of when we get into our wants, because there's a difference between wants and desires, right? Do you get into your wants, which are more superficial, they're ego-based, mind-based, not bad, not like wrong. It's not you're a bad person if you have wants. It just means that you're working out of your ego mind instead of what's truly in your heart, okay? And what happens when we're in these wants, is we oftentimes manipulate our own inner masculine to get what we want. We manipulate our own inner masculine to get what we want. So do you have a strong no to your wants? Are you clear on what are wants and what are desires? OK, these are very powerful contemplation questions. What are wants? What are desires? Do you know the difference between them? Can you feel the difference between them? And do you have a strong no to the wants and to things that do not serve you? Or are you uncertain? Do you not have discernment? Do you not have certainty and conviction of your no? If you do not have certainty and conviction of your no, Alara Sage (08:47.254) your inner feminine will not feel safe. You will not be open to be magnetic. open to receive, open to be in your full power, open to be in your full desire. So contemplate those questions, sit down with them, write out the questions I said, rewind this, listen, write the questions out, sit with each question, spend some time with this, it'll change your life. It'll change your life. Alara Sage (09:26.104) So if you can access that no inside of you and understand when it needs to be used and when your yes needs to be used because they're the dualism, they're the masculine and the feminine in and of themselves. We need both. We need both the yes and the no to hold strong presence in our life, to have clarity and conviction. We need the yes to have clarity and conviction. When it is a yes, it's a full body. F yes, right and when it's a no, it's a full body. No, and that is it and there are no maybes and I've said this before that maybe is simply uncertainty. Maybe is where you're not truly listening to whether it's a yes or no. Maybe is where the yes or no is there. You just don't want to acknowledge it. You don't want to listen to it. You don't like the answer and so you we come into the context of maybe or I don't know. Maybe is it I don't know don't truly exist when you are in presence with yourself and you are truly open to is it a yes or is it a no? What is the answer? Okay. So contemplate this and consider where are you not allowing your no? Where are you saying yes to wants and not connected to your desires? Where is your desire? How do you find your desire? How do you say yes to your desire? How do you give yourself full permission in your desire with the certainty of your masculine to say no to things that do not serve you? Absolutely life changing. And I would love to hear how this landed for you. You can email me info at AlaraSage.com. And if this is something that is resonating with you, but you don't really understand what to do with it, you can reach out to me and we can discuss working together. have a lot of different variations, ways that I work with people. Well, I can help you and support you to connect to your desires, to open this up, to understand this dynamic between your inner masculine and your feminine so that you can become much more magnetic. And honestly, it's not even just about the magnetism. It's about the pleasure, because when we're in our desires, there is a great deal of pleasure in life, not sexual. Alara Sage (11:51.522) But sensually in life we experience pleasure sensually. delicious and see a liveness of life. It's what turns us on. It's what makes life enjoyable and beyond worth living, but delightful to live, delightful to experience. Okay, much love to you.

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